We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. His nessus is in conjunction with his true node in geminis (in opposition to my uranus and my vesta). 3. It makes me feel very crazy. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 . Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. I have seen it in a few people, only. First of all Lilith is for . Uranus is kink, so you do the math. That is why it is so powerful. Powerful, you say? I would need to see more, Jenn! YOU are the most important person to me. These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. All of astrology is neutral. Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. lol. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. I wonder if that would mean that he IS an abuser but couldnt abuse me ?? Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. Things to look for in synastry: Here we focus on indications of sexual attraction using Astrology as our tool. It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. In fact, it is the opposite. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. 8. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. I know this is not my website, so I cannot change how you write and it is not my business to dictate how you write. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. In my opinion, it will play out. But I do see this possibly helping people with many bad aspects that could show any possibility of abuse in their own chart already whom have actually been through anything so that this can help them feel validated about past or current pains, but its not good to deem things as going to play out in time just because they havent yet in a long standing, healthy relationship. This is not to say it would be better or even easier. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Does this mean anything? 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. DRACO CHARTS (DRACO-NATAL/ DRACO-SYNASTRY) Originally posted by kellyaroman What is a draco chart in astrology ? Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. It can also happen that there are changes in your love life when the Vertex is triggered in your birth chart by some transiting planet or progression. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. I sense Saggi. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). Your articles hit me hard again:-). I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? Thank you, Lo and Welcome The issue is that me disagreeing with you being fatalistic (because what you say is not what always happens, not even 60% of the time because I have nessus/dejanira aspects with most people that are close to me, and I have never been abused or attacked in any of those relationships) does not mean that Im not accepting the truth. I am sorry! Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. And what about Sun and Pluto contacts in synastry? Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. Lovely and very filled with passion! It is valued! Thank you Ivs. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Aww Fluffy Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. In my studies and usage of them, they play out to be the abuser and the victim. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? There are many, many possibilities in astrology, even infinite if Im speaking on the complexity of each persons chart. If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Oops, sorry Amiann. Yes, it would. You truly made my day! I have to always be honest. You made my day, Juice and Welcome! Hmm Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. Also, there is no abuse either way. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. This is a general rule, my Friend. If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. Always leaving them in a fog of confusion, along with lies, victim playing and guilt trips. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. Come and post the charts. Lets see. I am one person with one persons experience, of course. To me, you may really struggle with falling into the victim role and would have to keep pulling yourself up over and over until you get real traction which could take some time, oh im sorry. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. Dejanira (female) conjunct Saturn (male) Her theme is power-alluring and irresistible. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! That is most certainly not the truth. Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. I dont pay that much attention to Deja conj another asteroid. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. You say that you want a nuclear passionate relationship. "In Greek art Eros was depicted as a winged youth, slight but beautiful, often with eyes covered to symbolize the blindness of love. the Moons will make for best friends. I just never have, not that it is not good. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus.
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